What is PRICK?
PRICK is another BDSM concept based on mutual consent, similar to SSC or RACK. PRICK stands for: Personal, Responsible, Informed, Consensual, Kink. The term is an ironic play on the word “prick,” which translates loosely as “idiot.”
Such concepts, especially with new contacts, facilitate communication about how one wants to play together. They also provide beginners with an overview of how BDSM interactions should occur and make it clear that BDSM is more than just enduring and overpowering someone. These principles serve as a model and foundation for practicing sadomasochistic activities and distinguishing them from legally relevant violence. The most well-known concepts are as mentioned before SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and RACK (Risk Aware, Consensual, Kink). In addition, there are other models of consent, such as FRIES (Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific) and PRICK, which is the focus of this article.
What does PRICK mean?
As mentioned, PRICK is an acronym, a short form made from the first letters of words, and also a humorous term. A saying goes: “You’re not a prick for using PRICK.” Expanded, PRICK stands for:
P: Personal
R: Responsibility – Taking personal responsibility, meaning being aware that all parties share responsibility and, above all, must take it upon themselves.
I: Informed – Educating oneself about partners, practices, and consequences in advance.
C: Consensual – All activities are consensual and conducted through mutual agreement.
K: Kink
PRICK is therefore a more thoughtful version of RACK, with a focus primarily on personal responsibility. The emphasis on self-awareness and informed action goes beyond RACK. PRICK addresses the criticism that often only one party in a RACK scenario is aware of the risks and that one can never be fully aware of all risks. Therefore, PRICK is particularly popular among experienced BDSM practitioners.
What does this mean in practice?
PRICK is especially suitable for experienced BDSM practitioners who are already aware of their preferences. On this basis, communication, particularly regarding personal limits, can happen without the need to constantly rehash or discover each practice. It also means being aware of possible consequences, mistakes, or injuries. This awareness makes it easier to talk through difficult situations or decisions.
One practical application might be a first session with a new partner: before it starts, everyone involved should ensure that they have the same information about practices, boundaries, and potential consequences. This means not only communicating one’s own preferences and limits but also making sure the other partner understands the relevant information about the practices and their possible risks. This way, a foundation for safe and respectful play is established.
Another practical scenario could be the use of safewords or a traffic light system during a session. PRICK places special emphasis on the fact that consent can be withdrawn at any time. In practice, this means that all participants must feel that the right to withdraw consent can be exercised clearly and without hesitation. A well-defined safeword or traffic light system ensures clear signals, allowing everyone involved to take a break or stop the activity immediately if something becomes uncomfortable. Once everyone is ready and aware that the agreements for the upcoming session are understood, the play can begin.
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