CATEGORY: BOTTOM
What exactly is a Toy?
Talking about “Toys” in BDSM-context, we usually refer to it less as small cars and Lego bricks, but more as dildos, vibrators, anal beads, love balls, and much more. But when is a Toy actually a role?”
A Toy is a submissive person who is used as a toy by the dominant counterpart to satisfy lust. This can be objectifying and dehumanizing, but it doesn’t have to be. As always, it is important to communicate ideas, fantasies, wishes and limits as well as mutual consent.
What roles is the Toy related to?
Toys are submissive personalities, often involving dehumanization. They share this characteristic with Dolls. Additionally, almost all Bottoms or Subs can partially or temporarily see themselves as Toys within the framework of play, enjoying the role of a Toy. The degree to which dehumanization or objectification is considered pleasurable varies greatly from person to person. The term “Toy” is used when serving the pleasure of the dominant player is the main focus of the play. Unlike Sissies, for example, Toys are not typically humiliated; they are simply used.
Who matches with a Toy?
Degraders and makers are often true masters of objectification and therefore very good counterparts to Toys. In general, almost all Tops or Doms are a good match as a dominant partner, especially those people who are good at satisfying their own needs. These can be, for example, Master/Mistress or Sadists.
As a Toy it is important that…
..good aftercare is provided. Playing with dehumanization can be a violent, psychological dynamic. Especially then it is important to be able to talk about feelings in detail after a session.
You should have a lot of dedication and joy, because as a toy the most important task is to satisfy the person playing above. You can be used as a Toy if your top wants it. Just like the vibrator in the nightstand does.
