Understanding Sexuality in BDSM

Masochism: The M in BDSM

Masochism describes the sexual pleasure derived from suffering and pain. But why do some people enjoy it, and where does this preference come from?

Perverse – wrong, twisted, unacceptable?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

The term “perverse” originally means “turned around” or “reversed”. The adjective is often used in a sexual context.

Foot fetish: soles on their path to acceptance

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Thanks to its high prevalence and prominent supporters, foot fetishism has become one of the most accepted fetishes in our society. But what lies behind it?

Talking about preferences: “And what are you into?”

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Talking about preferences, inclinations, and fetishes can be daunting, feel unfamiliar, and evoke feelings of shame. Here are seven ideas.

Kinky – a bend in sexuality

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.

Vanilla isn’t everyone’s flavor. And that’s fine.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

A term to differentiate oneself. However, there are different interpretations of what exactly that means. Much of what was once considered kinky is also practiced by vanillas.