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Sexuality

Sexuality encompasses a wide range of preferences and practices, and understanding it is crucial for a fulfilling BDSM experience. On Deviance, you'll find valuable resources to help you explore and understand your sexuality, communicate effectively, and integrate your desires into your BDSM practices. Our guides provide insights into different aspects of sexuality, from emotional connections to physical practices, ensuring a well-rounded and respectful approach to your experiences.

by Deviance | A to Z, Products

There’s enough anal for everyone. And the preparation is easier than you think

Preparing for anal the right way. The experts at anuux explain how to start your adventure relaxed, clean and confident, and why good preparation is the best foreplay.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

The big advent campaign from Deviance and Orion is back and this time it gets even hotter…

Last Christmas… we already did it and now the continuation with Orion follows. This year we are sliding back into advent with a spark and kicking things off with the exclusively sold out Magic Shiver.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

The big Christmas giveaway from Orion and Deviance: Make your holiday season extra kinky

Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a sensual giveaway that will definitely heat you up in the cold season! 🎁🔥 Here’s how it works: To […]

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Dirty Talk – Words that hit the spot

Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk – and why they aren’t.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Help, the person I like is not kinky!

Can BDSM only work with kinksters? What if I like someone who isn’t kinky? Kitteh spills the beans.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Primal – Wild thing, you make my heart sing

“Primal” is a BDSM practice in which participants fully embrace their animalistic instincts, including biting, scratching, and grunting.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

How to find out if someone is into BDSM

Whether it’s a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, how do you find out if another person is into BDSM or open to try it?

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The Slut: a new sexual confidence

Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.

by Kitteh | BDSM & Society, Stories

Vanilla? Really?

Many people are into BDSM without realizing it. Yet, much of what is practiced in the so-called vanilla realm often has nothing to do with consent anymore.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

Sex-positive: party motto or lifestyle?

Just a trendy marketing name for parties or a way of life? Does being sex-positive automatically mean sex parties or just that everyone has a place here? And what does that have to do with book clubs?

by Deviance | BDSM & Society, Stories

Lea – the battle cry of a bore?

“It’s the rage that motivates me to stand up for the BDSM community.” Why Lea, web and app developer in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

Masochism: The M in BDSM

Masochism describes the sexual pleasure derived from suffering and pain. But why do some people enjoy it, and where does this preference come from?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Perverse – wrong, twisted, unacceptable?

The term “perverse” originally means “turned around” or “reversed”. The adjective is often used in a sexual context.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Foot fetish: soles on their path to acceptance

Thanks to its high prevalence and prominent supporters, foot fetishism has become one of the most accepted fetishes in our society. But what lies behind it?

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Talking about preferences: “And what are you into?”

Talking about preferences, inclinations, and fetishes can be daunting, feel unfamiliar, and evoke feelings of shame. Here are seven ideas.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Kinky – a bend in sexuality

In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Vanilla isn’t everyone’s flavor. And that’s fine.

A term to differentiate oneself. However, there are different interpretations of what exactly that means. Much of what was once considered kinky is also practiced by vanillas.