Going through a breakup is terrible. When a partnership ends, that’s bad enough. But what if BDSM was also involved?
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Going through a breakup is terrible. When a partnership ends, that’s bad enough. But what if BDSM was also involved?
In BDSM jargon, a Little is a person who likes to adopt toddler-like behavior and is looking for a parental figure of reference.
“Deviance aims to help BDSM-interested individuals who hide their desires from each other to connect. But what are the experiences?”
A breakup is never pleasant, whether BDSM is involved or not. But how do I best end things when it’s no longer working out? A brief guide.
Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.
D/s is a BDSM abbreviation for Dominance and Submission, referring to the deliberate and consensual creation of unequal power dynamics.
Consent or consensus is a word that often comes up in BDSM. But how do you establish it? How do you negotiate consent? Here are five points.
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Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you.
What exactly is a testicle pillory? A testicle pillory, also called a “humbler,” is a two-part, curved arch. These are mostly made of wood. Both parts can be screwed together and thereby clamp the testicles. This is possible in different intensities. Everything is possible, from the light presentation of the
In the BDSM context, this refers to dominant people who bring submissives into a role play using clothing, make-up and rules. This role is also called sissy. This type of game often has aspects of degradation and humiliation, because it involves the degradation of the person. Feminization comes in many
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Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.
Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
"FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners."