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Experiencing power and violence can cause more sexual arousal for a masochist than the actual performance of sexual acts.
Brat – nightmare or challenge?
Hardly any type is as controversial in the BDSM area as the role of the brat. Some are annoyed by the rebelliousness, others love the challenge.
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