When people talk about red flags in BDSM, they usually want to warn submissive people. But not all subs are lovely angels.

When people talk about red flags in BDSM, they usually want to warn submissive people. But not all subs are lovely angels.
Conversations are sometimes not an easy matter, especially on BDSM dates. Here are 16 questions that will put your date through their paces.
When two or more people engage in BDSM, the issue of personal safety should be anything but neglected.
Dating location: The first date in BDSM always brings some difficulties with it. One of them is choosing a suitable location.
You might have heard of FetLife before but couldn’t find it online? We’ll explain why.
A sudden breakup, a Tinder acquaintance, and a breakfast with much dismay. How Anna became a Sub thanks to a Cuckold she couldn’t shake off anymore.
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