Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.
Playing on a thin edge: knife play
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Degradee – Sinking into the ground with pleasure
In BDSM, a Degradee is a Bottom who enjoys degradation and humiliation. Find out more about the role and what the game looks like here.
Pet – Adopt don’t shop
When we talk about a Pet in BDSM, it’s less about our fluffy four-legged friends and more about the Bottom in pet play.
Degradation: Between sinking into the ground and flying high
Degradation is one of the most common BDSM clichés we encounter, but what exactly does it entail and what does it actually mean?
Rape play – A sensitive fantasy
What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.
Breathtakingly beautiful: Breath play
Breath play, or breath control, is one of the most popular but also most dangerous BDSM practices. But what forms and dangers are there?
Two diaper fetishists talk openly
There are so many clichés about the diaper fetish. To clear up some of these, we interviewed two diaper fetishists.
Ruined orgasm – Hands off!
A ruined orgasm is a practice where a person experiences climax without satisfaction. Find out here how to ruin an orgasm.
Diaper fetish – Acting little in big pants
Diaper fetish, Adult Baby, Diaper Lover: Primarily, it’s about expressing childlike aspects that everyone more or less carries within them.
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