Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.
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Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.
Chastity belt: For some a sex toy; for others, an instrument of torture. Find out here what they look like and what they can do.
Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.
Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.
A gag prevents a person from speaking or screaming, but the appeal lies mainly in the humiliation through drooling and ridiculous sounds.
In BDSM chastity play, the bottom participant abstains from sex, masturbation, and/or orgasms at the request of the top participant.
Clamps for BDSM can be attached to various parts of the body. But beware: Not every body part is suitable for everyone when it comes to pain tolerance.
A Kinkster engages in kinky activities, practice SM practices, and is flexible in the expression of their desires without aligning with one side of the power dynamic.
Kink shaming describes the devaluation of a person based on their sexual preferences and is also frequently encountered within the BDSM community.
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