BDSM is often seen as a deviation from the norm, but who defines and determines what is “normal” anyway? Guest author Cassie did some research.
Diagnosis: Sadomasochism. Do i have a disorder?
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Faster, further, better… about competition in BDSM
Others’ experiences can be very unsettling for BDSM practitioners. Comparisons are inevitable. Guest author Julia on competitive thinking.
How to sub: 12 tips for beginners
You want to experience BDSM as a Sub, give away control, and be dominated? The following tips for novice subs will help you with that.
How to dom: 12 tips for beginners
You’re a beginner and want to explore BDSM as a Dom, taking control? The following tips for Dom beginners from Gentledom.de can help you with that.
The inner struggle
Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains.
#NormalizeBDSM
BDSM is sick? No, says blogger Katharina-Sophie and demands: Normalize BDSM! However, some vanillas may see it differently.
Of wishing and wanting
Wishes and BDSM fantasies can sometimes be quite wild. However, author Margaux Navara wishes especially for beginners that these are not fulfilled at first.
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A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.
DIY Paracord Flogger – Tutorial
How about a very personal gift: In this tutorial, blogger Katharina-Sophie shows you how to make your own DIY flogger.
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