Whether you buy your own collar or whether the awarding of the collar is a meaningful act between the people in question is up to each person.
The collar: fashion accessory or symbol?
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Equipment
STI and STD Part V: safer sex and BDSM
Due to a wide range of practices, the risk of transmission is particularly high in BDSM. Find out what you need for safer sex here.
Gag – Speech is silver, silence is gold
A gag prevents a person from speaking or screaming, but the appeal lies mainly in the humiliation through drooling and ridiculous sounds.
Sperm stopper – pleasure through closure
A sperm stopper is a penis plug that prevents semen from leaving the penis during ejaculation. Explore why some find this arousing.
Bondage tape – Non stop fun on a roll
What is bondage tape? Why do you use it in BDSM and what do you have to consider when playing with it? A small introduction to this popular bondage alternative.
Monoglove: Everything bagged
A monoglove resembles a sack pulled over the arms, restricting a person’s mobility. But what should one consider when buying one?
Love balls: training of a special kind
Love balls are a sex toy and medical aid for strengthening the pelvic floor muscles of people with vaginas, which can also bring erotic benefits.
Chastity for beginners: silicone cock lock
The silicone cock lock is a relative of the chastity cage and chastity belt, but much better suited for beginners interested in chastity.
Cane – Not an empty threat
As inconspicuous as a cane may look, the more nasty the pain caused by this caning tool is. Find out here what types there are.
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