What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.
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What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.
Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.
In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?
Power dynamic is one of the most important concepts, the central element of any BDSM relationship or activity, distinguishing it from fetishes and kinks.
A ruined orgasm is a practice where a person experiences climax without satisfaction. Find out here how to ruin an orgasm.
Whether as a heightened state of sexual arousal or as a means of erotic torment and humiliation, tease and denial can be used in diverse ways, even outside of the BDSM context.
The silicone cock lock is a relative of the chastity cage and chastity belt, but much better suited for beginners interested in chastity.
FLR is the abbreviation for “Female Led Relationship,” a type of relationship in which, by agreement, a dominant woman is in charge.
You’re a beginner and want to explore BDSM as a Dom, taking control? The following tips for Dom beginners from Gentledom.de can help you with that.
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Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you.
You've decided on a premium membership? Great! Here's how to manage your subscription and settings.
Probably you've seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?
Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here's how.
Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.
Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
"FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners."
How fast should it go, and how many coincidences are actually still normal? Miss Lena shares her experiences on Deviance.
When you start exploring BDSM, you often hear the term "scene" or "community" - also here on Deviance. But who are all these people, and when do you become part of it?