Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.

Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.
Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.
Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.
Degraders are dominant people who enjoy degradation and humiliation. BDSM is about the erotic consensual humiliation of a bottom.
D/s is a BDSM abbreviation for Dominance and Submission, referring to the deliberate and consensual creation of unequal power dynamics.
When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?
What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.
Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.
In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?
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Feminization describes a BDSM roleplay that plays with gender roles and power dynamics. But isn’t that actually misogynistic?
Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?
A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.
Tying doesn't always require two. Even tying yourself up alone can unlock new heights of pleasure – as long as you keep some safety aspects in mind.
AB/DL is a fascinating kink where adults take on the role of babies. However, it is not about an interest in children.
TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.
Kinky, creative, curious: Obscene 2025 brought ropes, shows, and exciting newcomers. Our highlights from the fair in Karlsruhe.
Financial Domination combines money and power in BDSM. A game that uniquely merges pleasure and control, but also carries risks.
PRICK sounds humorous, but it’s a BDSM concept for consent and responsibility. Learn how it helps set clear boundaries and foster communication.
Hentai is Japanese erotica in manga and anime and is the most searched term worldwide on porn sites. This article explores the history, fetishes, and cultural aspects of this art form.