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Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a sensual giveaway that will definitely heat you up in the…

Dirty talk doesn't have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone...

Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk - and why they aren’t.

A fetish fair offers much more than just shopping. No matter which one you attend, you’ll be stepping into a world full of diversity. Find out here how to make the most of your visit.

Trustworthy fun: Every verified profile helps build a network of trusted members. Together, we're making Deviance a platform where you can truly let go.

Finally! The feature you've all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.

Although "Dom" is gender-neutral, the term is still often associated with male dominance, which is why the specific term "Femdom" emerged.

BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of "white BDSM", which refers to medical play.

Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.

Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you.