“My contradictory preferences are something I draw strength from.” Why KatKristall, author on the Deviance team, writes about BDSM.
KatKristall – Kinkucation with glitter
read more
BDSM and society
Lynn – From a dingy dungeon to a wine bar
“A refined evening among friends, who just happen to all be a bit kinky.” Why Lynn, author in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM.
Marina – Struggle at stigma level 5
“If I ever stop working with food, I’ll build a Tinder for BDSM!” Marina, founder of Deviance, explains how a joke turned into something serious.
Lea – the battle cry of a bore?
“It’s the rage that motivates me to stand up for the BDSM community.” Why Lea, web and app developer in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM.
Fetish & Fashion – Who inspires whom?
Fetish and fashion have always influenced each other. A story about the relationship between designers and the BDSM subculture.
Am I a pervert? – (Entertaining) thoughts
Nobody had to say to me, “That’s perverted!” counter-emotional. I knew that others would label my sexual behavior as perverted.
Perverse – wrong, twisted, unacceptable?
The term “perverse” originally means “turned around” or “reversed”. The adjective is often used in a sexual context.
How kink shaming creates additional barriers
Kink shaming describes the devaluation of a person based on their sexual preferences and is also frequently encountered within the BDSM community.
The inner struggle
Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains.
Share the article
This might also interest you
AB/DL: A fascinating kink and its aspects
AB/DL is a fascinating kink where adults take on the role of babies. However, it is not about an interest in children.
TPE: An intense relationship style that redefines consent
TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.
Of ropes and radiance: A sensual look at Obscene 2025
Kinky, creative, curious: Obscene 2025 brought ropes, shows, and exciting newcomers. Our highlights from the fair in Karlsruhe.
Financial Domination: Just play money or playing with money?
Financial Domination combines money and power in BDSM. A game that uniquely merges pleasure and control, but also carries risks.
You’re not a prick for using PRICK!
PRICK sounds humorous, but it’s a BDSM concept for consent and responsibility. Learn how it helps set clear boundaries and foster communication.
Hentai: From “perverse” in Japanese to global popularity
Hentai is Japanese erotica in manga and anime and is the most searched term worldwide on porn sites. This article explores the history, fetishes, and cultural aspects of this art form.
Feminizer in BDSM: A journey into roleplay and degradation
Feminizer in BDSM: A transformative role that plays with power, degradation, and feminization. Explore the facets of this kink.
Finsub – quite an expensive thrill
Finsub, money pig, money slave: Find out here why some people get turned on by financially submitting and what facets this role has.
Milking: How forced ejaculation works and why it’s so fascinating
Milking is a BDSM practice where sperm is released without orgasm, often pushed beyond the comfortable level...
Call me! Six tips for successful video dating
Video dating is the perfect way to test the chemistry without wasting much time. Here are six sexy tips for spontaneous dates behind the screen.