How fast should it go, and how many coincidences are actually still normal? Miss Lena shares her experiences on Deviance.
When you start exploring BDSM, you often hear the term “scene” or “community” – also here on Deviance. But who are all these people, and when do you become part of it?
BDSM and drugs, both promise a high. But these extremes do not belong together. In this article, you’ll find a concentrated load of raised index fingers.
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Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September.
What is a fetish party? What happens there and how much does it have to do with BDSM? Can I play there too? Find out in this article what awaits you there.
Intox Play and Chemsex are currently big topics in the sex-positive community. But can playing under the influence of drugs even be considered BDSM?
The Hanky Code is unfamiliar to many now, but it used to be a widely used system in the LGBTQ+ scene. Find out here what the colors mean.
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Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you.
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Probably you've seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?
Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here's how.
Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.
Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
"FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners."
How fast should it go, and how many coincidences are actually still normal? Miss Lena shares her experiences on Deviance.
When you start exploring BDSM, you often hear the term "scene" or "community" - also here on Deviance. But who are all these people, and when do you become part of it?
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