For BDSM, you need at least two people, right? Can masturbation even be kinky? You bet! Here are a few ideas.
Play with yourself: Ideas for kinky masturbation
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Figging – pretty spicy!
What does a piece of ginger have to do with sex and BDSM? Deviance explains what figging is all about and what to consider.
Pegging: exploring new varieties of penetration
Pegging is a sexual practice in which an active person anally penetrates a passive person using a strap-on, a type of dildo.
How to find the right strapon
Finding the right strapon in the jungle of options isn’t always easy. Femdom and Deviance author Lynn gives tips on how to find the right model.
Strapon – Putting the ‘fun’ in functional
A strapon, also known as a “strap-on dildo,” allows individuals without a penis to penetrate others in the desired manner.
Plug in and find out
The butt plug is a popular toy not only in BDSM. We explain what the toy is all about and how to use it.
STI and STD Part V: safer sex and BDSM
Due to a wide range of practices, the risk of transmission is particularly high in BDSM. Find out what you need for safer sex here.
Rimming? Kiss my ass!
The exterior and interior of the anus have numerous nerve endings that respond particularly sensitively to stimulation and should definitely be included in lovemaking.
Your backdoor’s new best friends: anal beads
The pleasure is particularly stimulating when anal beads are pulled out just before or during orgasm. Find out more here!
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