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Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you. How fast should it go, and how many coincidences are actually still normal? Miss Lena shares her experiences on Deviance. Labels provide security, and Germans in particular are known for wanting to standardize everything and call it by name. Why this can sometimes be annoying in BDSM… “Deviance aims to help BDSM-interested individuals who hide their desires from each other to connect. But what are the experiences?” A fetish event is anything but grubby. Here, the BDSM scene celebrates! Organizer Christian explains what matters. Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September. Pony play may seem very bizarre to outsiders, yet it’s a popular aspect of BDSM. Nighty Swifthoof is a human horse and let us slip into his hooves. Does BDSM belong at Pride? A question that has been much discussed for years. Here are the arguments for and against, as well as a few possible solutions. The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history.
BoundCon 2024: Gloss, Latex, Barbie gone wild, and a fabulous party
From Munich with love…
Labels and why they are overrated
Sought, found, married! Interview with our users
Fetish party: Champagne or dark dungeons?
Folsom Street Fair: From Leatherman to Pride
Hoofbeats and heartbeats: Nighty Swifthoof from stable to spotlight
BDSM and Pride: Should kink be part of the parade?
Christopher Street Day: A brief history
Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you. Labels provide security, and Germans in particular are known for wanting to standardize everything and call it by name. Why this can sometimes be annoying in BDSM… Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September. Does BDSM belong at Pride? A question that has been much discussed for years. Here are the arguments for and against, as well as a few possible solutions. The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history. Many people are into BDSM without realizing it. Yet, much of what is practiced in the so-called vanilla realm often has nothing to do with consent anymore. Everyone knows them: the typical BDSM clichés. But is there any truth to them? And where do such prejudices come from? We took a closer look at that. BDSM is often seen as a deviation from the norm, but who defines and determines what is “normal” anyway? Guest author Cassie did some research. Why “Slave” should no longer be used as a BDSM term in public spaces. A guest post from blogger and Twitterer Poly.
BoundCon 2024: Gloss, Latex, Barbie gone wild, and a fabulous party
Labels and why they are overrated
Folsom Street Fair: From Leatherman to Pride
BDSM and Pride: Should kink be part of the parade?
Christopher Street Day: A brief history
Vanilla? Really?
Clichés and myths about BDSM – stop it!
Diagnosis: Sadomasochism. Do i have a disorder?
The term “Slave” in the context of BDSM
When playing with humiliation, you’re also playing with the sense of shame. A personal story about what there is to like about it. Others’ experiences can be very unsettling for BDSM practitioners. Comparisons are inevitable. Guest author Julia on competitive thinking. Candlelight has always been associated with romance and the bedroom. So, it was only a matter of time before people started playing with wax. Controlling your orgasm is a bit like baking frozen pizza. At some point you just have the feeling when the time is right. Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains. BDSM author Margaux Navara regularly presents new toys. Among them, there’s one that almost everyone already has and doesn’t even cost anything: our hands. There is BDSM with beatings, restraints, or pain. And there is submission. As an author, Margaux Navara is allowed to fantasize, she says. And has provided Deviance with one of these fantasies. Not the clothing dominates, but the person. However, staging a session and doling oneself up for it can make you forget about everyday life, says Femdom and author Lynn. A sudden breakup, a Tinder acquaintance, and a breakfast with much dismay. How Anna became a Sub thanks to a Cuckold she couldn’t shake off anymore.
A love letter to the sense of shame
Faster, further, better… about competition in BDSM
Constant dripping brings the moan: wax play
Attention, this is a control! About orgasms and sensitivity
The inner struggle
Why hands are the best toys
The last fantasy
The pleasure of staging
The Tinder Cuckold
How fast should it go, and how many coincidences are actually still normal? Miss Lena shares her experiences on Deviance. “Deviance aims to help BDSM-interested individuals who hide their desires from each other to connect. But what are the experiences?” A fetish event is anything but grubby. Here, the BDSM scene celebrates! Organizer Christian explains what matters. Pony play may seem very bizarre to outsiders, yet it’s a popular aspect of BDSM. Nighty Swifthoof is a human horse and let us slip into his hooves. How can family, open marriage and BDSM be reconciled? It’s all a question of organization, says Twitterer NikSput in this interview. How does a vanilla perceive BDSM? Marcel has never had any exposure to the topic. I wonder what kind of image he has of us kinksters? There are so many clichés about the diaper fetish. To clear up some of these, we interviewed two diaper fetishists.
From Munich with love…
Sought, found, married! Interview with our users
Fetish party: Champagne or dark dungeons?
Hoofbeats and heartbeats: Nighty Swifthoof from stable to spotlight
BDSM and family – Interview with twitter user NikSput
Vanilla view: an interview about BDSM
Two diaper fetishists talk openly
