Community Rules

To register with Deviance, you must be at least of legal age. If this is not the case, please contact the SMJG, a nationwide organization for young people with BDSM preferences, which will answer all your questions and show you other ways to meet someone.

Convicted sex offenders or persons charged with a sexual offense are not allowed to create a profile on Deviance. If you have discovered such a person, please let us know immediately.

What other members reveal about themselves in private conversations or what content you exchange is your private matter and may also not be shared. Neither in words, nor in writing, nor in pictures. As long as no one misbehaves, the conversation is between the two of you.

You can’t agree with everyone, and you can’t please everyone. Nevertheless, always remain polite. Personal, insulting, aggressive or racist attacks, criminal accusations or slander, bullying and any other kind of disrespectful behavior have no place on Deviance. If your conversation partner violates these rules of conduct, do not hesitate to report him or her to us immediately.

Only upload images and texts for which you have the rights. Either because you took or wrote them yourself, you can be seen in them or you have the express permission of the rights holder. Violations of personality rights and copyright will result in the deletion of at least the content.

You don’t increase your chances by creating several profiles or pretending to be someone else. Quite the opposite: duplicate registrations will be deleted immediately and nobody has ever understood fake profiles.

Children, minors and animals must not appear in photos or texts. To avoid misunderstandings, not even in supposedly harmless contexts such as family photos or pictures of the last time we went for a walk. This also applies to fictions, allusions, symbolic language, emojis, graphics and motifs that refer to children, minors or animals. If abuse of minors or animals in any way becomes the subject of a private conversation, please report this person immediately.

Disrespectful, discriminatory, racist, homophobic, transphobic and ableist statements, insinuations or motives have no place on Deviance.

Because that is also sexual harassment. Even if the people depicted are dressed or it is an erotic story in text form in your eyes. We take a similarly strict view of this as we do of nude images.

The depiction, description and even the mere suggestion of violence and extreme practices is strictly prohibited. This includes death, mutilation, rape (including acted a.k.a. rape play), excrement, incest, blood, wounds and more.

In order to protect our members, we do not allow the public viewing of contact data such as address, telephone number, e-mail addresses, user profiles in social networks and messengers on Deviance.

Our users are here to make human contacts. Therefore, we do not tolerate any kind of advertising, promotion or solicitation. Neither for the sale of goods and services, nor for the promotion of events, other websites/apps, appeals for donations, demonstrations, missing persons ads, chain letters, recruiting or similar. This also applies to off-topic advertising. If you would like to advertise on Deviance, please contact us at [email protected]. Together and transparently, we will find a way.