Whether it’s a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, how do you find out if another person is into BDSM or open to try it?
How to find out if someone is into BDSM
read more
Tips
BDSM and alcohol: don’t drink and kink!
For many people, alcohol is a stimulant, it relaxes us and puts us in the mood. We explain why he has no place in BDSM.
How to create a kinky dating profile
Indeed, dating profiles offer the opportunity to reveal more about one’s personality than offline interactions. Here are our tips.
Getting off on consent in 5 steps
Consent or consensus is a word that often comes up in BDSM. But how do you establish it? How do you negotiate consent? Here are five points.
STI and STD Part III: Misconceptions and clichés
There are a lot of misconceptions about sexually transmitted infections. It’s time to clear up a few, because the best prevention is still education.
Like a boss – 6 approaches to handle a drop
If the mood shifts during BDSM, it can lead to a drop. We’ll show you 6 possible approaches on how to deal with this situation.
6 questions to ask before playing
You’re not in top shape every day. Physically and psychologically. 6 questions that will help make your BDSM session a successful experience.
8 tips for good profile pictures on Deviance
When online dating, your profile picture is crucial. How do I take a good selfie and how can I score points on a BDSM platform?
How to talk kinky online… and how dafuq not
Profile viewed, smiled at the picture, swiped right. And… It’s a match! But what now? Here are our tips on how to turn the chat into a success.
Share the article
This might also interest you
When people become furniture: Insights into the world of the furniture fetish
Forniphilia combines body art with erotic objectification. Whether practiced alone or with partners, the transformation into a piece of furniture creates a unique blend of control and aesthetics.
Leather fetish: From texture to fantasy
Leather is often associated with dominance, sensuality, and strength. Fetishists value the material for its texture, scent, and connection to power and eroticism. Faux leather can also serve as a vegan alternative for some.
Scent, skin, intimacy, and a touch of taboo: The allure of the armpit fetish
For fetishists, armpits combine intimacy with sensuality. Scents, skin, and their often-hidden nature make them an erotic focal point, woven into fantasies and touch.
From plush and fantasy: A glimpse into the world of plushophilia
Stuffed animals are not just cuddly objects but also emotional and erotic companions for plushophiles. Their soft texture and association with comfort make them unique and often taboo fetish objects.
Eroticism at every step: The secrets behind a shoe fetish
Shoes captivate with their variety and symbolism. Whether high heels, leather boots, or sneakers—each style can be part of shoe fetishism, as shape, material, and scent evoke different sensations. While high heels often represent eroticism and power, sporty footwear like sneakers holds a unique allure through its connection to everyday…
Sweat, perfume, and more: When smell becomes a fetish
Scents act directly on the limbic system, triggering strong emotional and erotic responses. For fetishists, the smell of skin, clothing, or intimate areas often takes center stage in their fantasies.
All puffed up? What makes looning so exciting
Balloons captivate with their elasticity, scent, and the tension they create. Whether popping or gentle play, looning combines playful control with erotic imagination.
When nylon ignites the imagination: Insights into the nylon fetish
Nylon is valued for its smooth, elegant texture and the sensual tension it creates on the skin. Fetishists incorporate stockings and tights into role-playing and erotic rituals, often as an expression of sensuality and control.
Of roots and crowns: What is dendrophilia?
Trees captivate with their form, texture, and symbolism. For dendrophiles, the connection to nature takes center stage, whether through touch, rituals, or the aesthetic admiration of roots and leaves.
When dirt stimulates the senses: What is a dirt fetish?
For fetishists, the appeal of mysophilia lies in the allure of dirt. Touch, smell, and the breaking of societal taboos create a unique erotic tension.