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A Spankee is a person who desires to be spanked for erotic reasons within the BDSM context. But what makes this so appealing?
Bondage, in a sexual context, refers to all types of play in which someone is restrained from moving freely in some way.
Yiffing is a term from the so-called Furry scene and refers to any form of sexual activity that takes place between such characters.
Objectification is a BDSM practice in which a person is viewed as an object for erotic purposes. Learn here what makes it so appealing.
Humiliation in BDSM often involves public exposure. You can find out exactly what this looks like and why you like it here.
Tunnel play is an umbrella term for BDSM activities that, once started, cannot be stopped. Find out here what makes it appealing.
Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.
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Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.
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