Ending a date is uncomfortable. But sometimes there’s just no other option. And that’s okay. Here are a few approaches to remain fair and honest.

Ending a date is uncomfortable. But sometimes there’s just no other option. And that’s okay. Here are a few approaches to remain fair and honest.
What does a piece of ginger have to do with sex and BDSM? Deviance explains what figging is all about and what to consider.
A breakup is never pleasant, whether BDSM is involved or not. But how do I best end things when it’s no longer working out? A brief guide.
Role-play is not only a popular way to spice up sex life in BDSM. But why do we actually enjoy role-playing?
For many people, alcohol is a stimulant, it relaxes us and puts us in the mood. We explain why he has no place in BDSM.
Many people are into BDSM without realizing it. Yet, much of what is practiced in the so-called vanilla realm often has nothing to do with consent anymore.
Hand and ankle cuffs are among the most popular toys in BDSM. In this article, we provide an overview of the most common variants. Which one suits you?
What is a paddle anyway, and what is it used for in BDSM? We’ll explain what’s behind this popular impact tool.
When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?
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