In online dating, your profile text, along with your pictures, is the first impression of you. Here we explain what you should pay attention to in order to arouse interest in your suggestions.
A fetish event is anything but grubby. Here, the BDSM scene celebrates! Organizer Christian explains what matters.
What is a fetish party? What happens there and how much does it have to do with BDSM? Can I play there too? Find out in this article what awaits you there.
Pony play is an animalistic aspect of BDSM. But what exactly is a Ponyboy or Ponygirl? In this article, we’ll shoot the breeze…
Pony play is a unique form of pet play in BDSM. In this article, you’ll find out what it’s all about and what makes being a pony so appealing.
Pony play may seem very bizarre to outsiders, yet it’s a popular aspect of BDSM. Nighty Swifthoof is a human horse and let us slip into his hooves.
Ending a date is uncomfortable. But sometimes there’s just no other option. And that’s okay. Here are a few approaches to remain fair and honest.
What does a piece of ginger have to do with sex and BDSM? Deviance explains what figging is all about and what to consider.
A breakup is never pleasant, whether BDSM is involved or not. But how do I best end things when it’s no longer working out? A brief guide.
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Ho Ho Ho, feels like a smackdown! Deviance has tested this wooden paddle for you. Perfect for hot sessions on frosty days? Read on to find out!
Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a sensual giveaway that will definitely heat you up in the…
Dirty talk doesn't have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone...
Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk - and why they aren’t.
A fetish fair offers much more than just shopping. No matter which one you attend, you’ll be stepping into a world full of diversity. Find out here how to make the most of your visit.
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Finally! The feature you've all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.
Although "Dom" is gender-neutral, the term is still often associated with male dominance, which is why the specific term "Femdom" emerged.
BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of "white BDSM", which refers to medical play.
Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.