When playing with humiliation, you’re also playing with the sense of shame. A personal story about what there is to like about it.
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When playing with humiliation, you’re also playing with the sense of shame. A personal story about what there is to like about it.
Degradation is one of the most common BDSM clichés we encounter, but what exactly does it entail and what does it actually mean?
Just a trendy marketing name for parties or a way of life? Does being sex-positive automatically mean sex parties or just that everyone has a place here? And what does that have to do with book clubs?
Consent or consensus is a word that often comes up in BDSM. But how do you establish it? How do you negotiate consent? Here are five points.
Breath play, or breath control, is one of the most popular but also most dangerous BDSM practices. But what forms and dangers are there?
When you start to explore BDSM and the BDSM community, one of the terms you come across is ‘queer’. But what does that actually mean?
There are a lot of misconceptions about sexually transmitted infections. It’s time to clear up a few, because the best prevention is still education.
In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?
CNC stands for consensual non-consent, meaning the desire for something to happen against one’s will. Find out what this can look like here.
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Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you.
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Nipple clamps promise a special kind of pleasure pain. But beware! Not all have the same effect and evoke the same sensations.
Probably you've seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?
Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here's how.
Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.
Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
"FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners."
How fast should it go, and how many coincidences are actually still normal? Miss Lena shares her experiences on Deviance.