In addition to jute and hemp ropes, cotton rope is very popular in rope bondage or shibari. Here you can find out what makes it so special.
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In addition to jute and hemp ropes, cotton rope is very popular in rope bondage or shibari. Here you can find out what makes it so special.
Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.
A ball gag is the best-known form of gag and usually consists of a rubber ball and a strap for attachment. But what should you pay attention to?
A punishment book can be used within a BDSM relationship to record any misbehavior. The submissive person usually enters these themselves.
Labia spreaders are inserted into the vagina so that the vulva and clitoris are exposed and offer a variety of interesting play options.
A gag prevents a person from speaking or screaming, but the appeal lies mainly in the humiliation through drooling and ridiculous sounds.
A sperm stopper is a penis plug that prevents semen from leaving the penis during ejaculation. Explore why some find this arousing.
A monoglove resembles a sack pulled over the arms, restricting a person’s mobility. But what should one consider when buying one?
Love balls are a sex toy and medical aid for strengthening the pelvic floor muscles of people with vaginas, which can also bring erotic benefits.
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