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Masochist: Pleasure in pain and the joy of suffering

Experiencing power and violence can cause more sexual arousal for a masochist than the actual performance of sexual acts.

Controlling your orgasm is a bit like baking frozen pizza. At some point you just have the feeling when the time is right.

Oil-based lube, except for silicone oil, is not recommended as it can damage toys and condoms. It’s better to opt for water-based options.

Entering the BDSM scene, both offline and online, you often come across the term ‘Wannabe Dom’. What does it mean?

Hardly any type is as controversial in the BDSM area as the role of the brat. Some are annoyed by the rebelliousness, others love the challenge.

In BDSM, orgasm control refers to the prohibition, intentional delay, or enforcement of a partner’s orgasm.

Edging is a specific type of orgasm control in which a submissive person is repeatedly pushed to the limit of arousal.

Kink shaming describes the devaluation of a person based on their sexual preferences and is also frequently encountered within the BDSM community.

Ballbusting” or “Cock and Ball Torture” (“CBT” in short) is a form of play in which the penis and testicles are tormented.